Life update!

 

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Just wanted to make a quick life update post about what’s been going on in my world lately. I normally don’t feel comfy talking about personal things like this online but I am going to give it a try. Basically I made some poor career choices the past few months but the whole situation was an eye opener for me. I left a long time job because I listened to others, I ended up hating the new job completely. I knew after the first day that it wasn’t for me and that I had made a terrible decision. I reached my all time lows, I hated everything about my life at that point. Long story short I no longer work there and I have since gone back to my old job. That whole situation opened my eyes in the sense that I always seem to listen to others. I found myself thinking… “I never really do things to make myself happy”. I’m the type of person that always puts others first and I always try to please others ( It usually comes to bite me in the ass though). Throughout the whole transition back to my old job, I did a lot of deep thinking and brainstorming. I wrote down all the positive changes I wanted to make and things that I wanted to start having in my life. A few of the things are reducing my negative thoughts, stop complaining about things, start meditating, avoiding negative people, completing things on my bucketlist, etc. Overall I just want to think more positive and not take things for granted. Learning to appreciate the little things I do have in my life. This is the time for me to be a bit selfish and do things that I enjoy/ make me happy.

This past week has been fairly good, I’ve been in a good positive state and maintaining it. The usual things that would bother me, I’m choosing to let go of and not having it all affect me. The old me would over analyse and hold onto it for days until it made me miserable.I also managed to finally get this blog up and running too! It’s been on my bucketlist for a long time and I’ve sort of been hesitant/scared. With the whole idea of making positive changes in my life, I chose to go through with it. My hopes is that I’ll get a following and make a difference in some of my readers lives. I’m playing with the idea of possibly making a Vlog but still hesitant a bit.

The one thing that absolutely made me over joyed was that my sister has given birth to my lovely little niece Samantha!  She was born yesterday morning and I am so proud of my sister! This is the first baby in our whole family so it’s super exciting. Not to mention my parents are now grandparents 😀

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I would like to take this time to thank everyone for supporting me and coming on here to check my posts out. If you guys have any comments please feel free to leave them and make sure to follow me. It truly means the world to me ❤

With that I wish everyone (Canada) a Happy Thanksgiving!!

 

 

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2 Comments Add yours

  1. Jay says:

    Im happy to hear you’re slowly figuring things out and doing what makes you happy! Everything happens for a reason, live and learn. Again, congrats on becoming an aunty, aungy 🙂

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  2. Ross says:

    Good for you darling. I’ve been on the same sort of path. It does sometimes feel “selfish” to solely focus on myself. But, it’s actually more beneficial for our loved ones if we do focus on ourselves. With this new positive outlook we become more present in the important moments. Spending less time over analyzing every look or conversation we encounter. Just being in the moment and feeling actual feelings not a critical play by play review. My new motto I’ve been trying to live by is “You do you, and I’ll do me” thus allowing us all to live our on lives on our own terms. Congrats on being an auntie, I guess we are now somewhat related. I’m JR’s cousins partner.

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